But what about ‘afterplay’?
Afterplay, as you can probably guess, is comprised of the moments just after sex; and much like foreplay, it can last for just a few minutes—or many hours…
After sex is when sensitivity is at its highest, and physical intimacy, emboldened—and it might just be the best and most-overlooked part of couple sex.
Afterplay activities can take endless forms: including snuggling, cuddling, kissing, cleaning off, wiping up, taking a bath, back scratching etc. But whatever form it takes, it most always results in reconnection with your partner and an increased emotional bond.
A 2014 study found that couples who participate in post-coital affection report “greater sexual satisfaction in their relationship”. The study also revealed that post-coital affection was particularly important for couples with children, as physical intimacy usually comes at a
premium.1
So, just as foreplay is an important aspect to having great sex, afterplay should be just as necessary.
And who knows… it might just end up leading to… more foreplay <3.
1 Denes, A., & Afifi, T. D. (2014). Pillow talk and cognitive decision-making processes: Exploring the influence of
orgasm and alcohol on communication after sexual activity. Communication Monographs, 81(3), 333-358.

